Being Mirrors For Each Other

Being Mirrors For Each Other

By being mirrors for one another in your relationships, you can observe where your weak points are. These may show up when you have a sudden reaction to what the person said or did. Why is that a weak point for you? What is this person showing you that you need to look at in yourself? Asking these types of questions with a neutral non-attached outcome will allow your higher dimensions of being to come down from the higher levels into your emotional body to give you an answer. It will clear the smoke in front of you which was created by you and the other person. Make sure you get your sharp-tongued ego out of the way so that it doesn't block or distort the answer! The many lessons the person has to teach to help you grow as a spiritual being will continue on for the duration of the relationship. Some contracts are meant for a lifetime and others are not. Understanding this truth should make it easier for you to set sail again on your own, should you feel the relationship is not going anywhere anymore and there is no more growing. As a kindness to the other person, if you could somehow convey this to them, it would be a good way of having closure. Although they may not understand where you are coming from, at some dimension of themselves they will get what you are saying, and be 

 grateful for the time spent with you. 

When you set sail on your own again and are at peace with that decision, you will have more love for yourself and more inner peace. This adds to the love that is your true being. Even though it is hard and the emotional body will experience pain, loss and other uncomfortable feelings, you will know that you have completed an important contract that you and that person signed together. Grief and loss will always heal in time; trust this. What the other person feels and thinks is up to them. This is not being self-centered; this is about not looking for love outside you. By achieving this you offer this presence to the world, as a template for others who are working with the light so that they too will have the strength to hold the unshakable love within themselves and not need to look for love outside of themselves. This will help their present and future relationships with people flow smoother.

This article is an excerpt from a chapter in the book Mind Control and Frequency Fence, which I wrote with my partner. The chapter is titled Relationships and Looking for Love Outside Yourself.

I am a spiritual mentor, healer and writer, having written a poetry book, the book mentioned above, and I have two novels which will be released in the coming months on amazon as well, about spiritual adventures with a fantasy setting... http://www.starcrystalportal.com

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